Archive for the ‘Pregnancy and Birth’ Category

the worst things no one will tell you about your postpartum recovery

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One of the oft-proclaimed benefits of natural childbirth is that you recover faster. This may very well be true. It’s definitely true of vaginal birth as opposed to c-section. But do you really recover faster and easier after a drug-free birth than one with an epidural? Or does it just seem easier because after giving [...]

how organic is your birth control?

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In the immediate postpartum period, birth control is easy. Almost too easy. I’ve discovered the perfect method: simple, cheap, and 100% effective. It’s called abstinence. Because no woman wants to have sex immediately after giving birth. And usually not for some time after. But at some point, trying to continue this method can become extremely [...]

which type of postpartum body do you have? (and tips for getting a healthy one)

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Don’t you hate women who look gorgeous postpartum? Okay, maybe hate is the wrong word. I don’t hate you. Really. I envy you. Actually, I might hate you. Especially if you claim that some simple activity, like running after your toddler, breastfeeding, or cleaning house “makes the weight melt right off.” First of all, if [...]

home birth story: our Christmas baby!

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Let me start with a disclaimer. If you spend your entire pregnancy telling everyone that you love labor, that it’s your favorite part of having a baby, and that you can’t wait to do it again, well–you’re setting yourself up. And if it’s true that your first labor was that much fun, then you can [...]

10 things home birth attendants can do

Birth of the Virgin by Giovanni da Milano. Apparently St. Anne had lots of attendants at Mary's birth.

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I felt very private about the labor. Actually, I was private about everything. And by “private” what I really mean is “a really nasty person who will bite your head off if you try to talk to her.” Seriously. I ignored phone calls, didn’t answer the door, and [...]

what to do in early labor: stay home, do a project

Two nights ago, I finally had contractions that kept me from sleeping. That was the sign I’d been waiting for; I decided several weeks ago that when contractions kept me awake, they were officially labor. Yesterday morning they were still strong and consistent (and had been for over 12 hours), so I called my mom [...]

midwives and medical procedures

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Recently my mother started worrying about my blood pressure. I suppose it’s her job to worry when I’m pregnant. She asked my husband whether my midwife takes my blood pressure at prenatal visits. My husband, who hasn’t come to any prenatal visits this pregnancy, replied that he didn’t know. I was annoyed when he related [...]

what to do on your due date

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A generation ago, women didn’t have due dates. They had due months. As in, “your baby will arrive sometime in December or January.” This is a much more accurate way of thinking about births, since a “due date” is really a month-long window during which the baby is full-term and could be safely born. But [...]

when should labor be induced?

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I’ve been thinking a lot about inductions lately. I’ve been reading occasionally in the December due date club on a mom forum (I won’t tell you which one, but let’s just say it’s not one of the crunchy granola forums where I usually hang out), and a whole lot of the moms there are getting [...]

10 things not to say to me when I’m pregnant

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Warning: This post contains pregnancy hormones, irritability, sarcasm, and general rudeness. Don’t like it? Don’t read it. In fact, if you’re not pregnant and have never been pregnant, maybe you shouldn’t read this. This is another hormonal pregnant post. So if it comes across as rude, well, I’m sorry. If you’ve said one of these [...]

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